11.28.2013

What to do if you want to quit your current job because you don't enjoy it?

Typing your resignation letter and folding it into a envelope is easy as an ABC.
But before quitting your current job, there are a few things that you want to do.

1. Identify what you want to do next.

Is it realistic? Do you have the skill to do it?
If both answers are yes, easy case, find job that is related to it.
 If it is not realistic or you do not have the skill yet, you still have two choices:
Plan A - No more fantasy. Quit your job, gain the skill, do what you want. But first of all, make sure you have the budget to do so, or have at least 6 months saving to quit your job without having the next one.
Plan B - Stick your butt back to your seat. You gotta plan and go with something you can already do if you don't want to go back to the beginning again.

2. Identify what you don't like about the job. Are you sure you won't have this issue in the next job?

There are no perfect job, bear this in mind.

3. Identify what you like about the job. Is it worth quitting because of  #2 ?

Or you actually loves what you're doing and it actually makes your #2 bearable?

4. Will you regret quitting? Why?

Great superior? You definitely won't be able to find it anywhere.
Great colleagues? You don't know how bad the office politics are out there.
.... If there is a reason for you to stay, are you sure you want to quit?


Being a 22 years old freshman in the working society, I do face a lot of dilemmas, still facing them.

Wherever you go, whatever you do, the choice is in your hand.
Make sure you know where you want your destination is.
Whether or not the train will bring you there, you wouldn't know.
But something you will know is that, you'll keep moving forward, and you won't be standing on this same spot anymore.
You can still hop onto another train if it doesnt bring you to where you want, right?

Cheers :)

11.19.2013

因为最了解你的,正是你自己

是一个不安于现状的人

或是一个不断寻求进步的人


到底是 半途而废

或是 及早改变


答案因人而异吧

只有你知道你的路要怎么走,对吗?


(对对对对对!)



11.15.2013

我第三次遇上车祸了

若你有兴趣,第一次撞车记不了了之,双方各有错,且非常轻微,最后不了了之

第二次,我撞到行人....的手臂,她跌倒,还好没受伤,把我骂一顿,最后被我的诚意+歉意打动

这次车祸的发生嘛,是这样的

那天在停车场里,我非常用心的在找位子泊车

前面的车子突然停下,并开始退车

我停下来,鸣了好几声车笛

" 碰 krak " 就这样

机灵得来又冷静的小女子我,换到P,拉handbrake,等司机下车

名车里是个鬼佬,说真的那一刻我真的比较放下心

如果是本地人,我真会立刻联想到牙尖嘴利的aunty, 无赖赖账的uncle, 火爆的年轻人,更不要说是抢匪

(如果你知道,一年前被掠夺的阴影一直跟随我) 

虽是轻微车祸,小白的眼睛下面凹了个大坑,那排牙也歪了

鬼佬连声道歉,我跟他拿了名片,由于小女子赶时间,我们就拜拜了

检查了我的小白需要的damage消费后,我给R打了个电话

R正是事主

幸好,电话有人接

告诉了他价钱后,R 的反应是:Oh That's So Cheap!

我以为我听错了,重复说是 四百 五十 零吉哦,但他说

Well, I think I should pay you more. I'm sure you have to send it to garage for a few days and you won't have car during the few days. I understand that would cause you such inconveniene.

我半信半疑外,也不知如何作反应,这人开什么玩笑啊

亏我打电话前还策划,壮胆

担心名片不是本人担心赖账担心不接电话我还真的说不完的担心

就在第二天,我的户口里多了六百零吉

我想说的是:这个世界其实是有好人的

最近手头很紧的我真的有一点感动

从车子爆胎让巡逻警察帮忙换胎,遇上抢匪被便衣警察及时打救,到车子被撞遇上一个绅士

感谢幸运星的眷顾,让每一件事都有个幸福的结局

有时候,我真的以为我住在童话世界里

不管发生什么事情,总会有个美好的结局

无神论的我还是得谢天谢地,谢各个神明罩着瘦弱且手无寸铁的小女子我

感激万分

11.11.2013

爱上喝茶这件事

昨天姜母茶,今天玄米茶,那天香茅茶,明天当归灵芝茶....

他问:干吗你最近一直喝老人茶?

EXCUSE ME!!

(老你的屁股)

你知不知道茶的好处啊

抗老,补气,帮助血液循环,利尿,排毒,帮助消化

因为我可要美美的变老

年纪大却又不留一丝皱纹是我的人生目标

他说:但年轻人应该要喝可乐才对

*我晕了*


11.02.2013

放胆做自己吧

曾经我很迷惑

迷惑着不知道自己是哪种人,要些什么,想做什么

连自己都不认识自己的感觉真的不是好玩的

因为还不了解自己,连工作面试都要预备好模范答案

类似:你在五年内的人生目标是什么?

我曾说过很多虚伪的模范答案。

糟糕的是,模范答案是给想当企业家/工作变态狂准备的

但我只是个小女子,我不是这种人啊!!

曾经,接下来被问:你为此目标付出过了什么?

脑里挣扎着找答案;

心里却想着:其实我真的没有什么付出,因为这不是我的目标。

天人交战的好一个体验啊。

经过那些超过十次虚伪的面试,终于培养好敢死队的冒险精神。

说好要做自己,还真的被问到:十年后你觉得你会在做什么?

我直视着面试者,对得起自己良心的说:会在做着我喜欢的工作,会有一份丰厚的薪水,然后我要到处去旅行。

心里很骄傲的想:如果你不聘请我,那你也许要的是一个工作狂,那我才不屑帮你干活叻!

世界那么多种人,总有人欣赏你对吗?

(说的可有自信叻,失败时请各位好心人忘了我说的话,收留我借个肩膀来擦感泪水OK?)